


MEN.
You've done well: career, business, finances- you know how to show up, deliver, and win.
With women though, something different happens:
maybe you over function, you become the fixer, the provider, the one managing everything, and wonder why she pulls away even though you're doing everything right.
Maybe you disappear- you feel something you can't control, and you shut down, go quiet, retreat into work, logic, distance.
Or maybe you swing between both- performing until it breaks, collapsing until you recover, and then performing again.
Your marriage or longterm relationship ended, and the part that won't let you sleep isn't the pain, it's the confusion, the nagging thought: you did everything you thought was right- it still fell apart. And no one has been able to tell you why.
*my work is available in English and German- based in Berlin
"The true definition of madness is repeating the same action over and over, hoping for different results"
Albert Einstein
What is happening?
You learned early that your value comes from what you do- from output, results, performance. That worked everywhere, except in intimacy- there it becomes problematic.
Intimacy doesn't reward performance, it requires presence. And presence is the one thing you were never taught to access.
So you keep showing up as the man you think she wants, instead of the man you actually are. And when that stops working, there's nothing underneath- just the collapse.
This is not a flaw about you, it's a pattern you can change.
How I work
This is not therapy- we won't spend months talking about your childhood. This also is not advice- I won't give you scripts or communication hacks.
This is transformation work- direct, embodied, sharp and confrontational when it needs to be.
I use acting based embodiment practices, somatic awareness, and a deep understanding of masculine feminine polarity to guide you back to yourself.
You won´t be a softer version of yourself, you will be more grounded, more present, and more powerful.
We work with your body, not just your mind. We look at how you move through conflict, desire, vulnerability, and leadership. We look at the women in your life as the mirror for your masculinity (because they are). We interrupt the patterns that run you and replace them with something real- YOU.
You won't become nicer, you will become stronger- from the inside out. A true warrior.
What changes?
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You stop performing and start leading from who you actually are
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You stay present when things get emotionally charged, instead of fixing or fleeing
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You understand what a woman actually needs from you (it's not what the majority of people say)
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You stop repeating the pattern that ended your last relationship
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You walk into your next relationship- and your life- as someone who doesn't need to prove anything (because you don´t)

THE MAN SHE WANTS
​3 months. 12 sessions. Full transformation.
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12 one on one sessions via Zoom (60 min)
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Telegram/WhatsApp access between sessions for real time support
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Embodiment exercises and awareness practices tailored to your specific patterns
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Direct, honest guidance from someone who sees through the performance
This is focused, individual work designed for men who are serious about changing.
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Investment: €4,500
This is for you if:
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You've been through a divorce or major breakup and you don't want to repeat what happened
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You're successful professionally but something keeps breaking in your intimate life
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You sense that the pattern is yours, not just hers (it´s never only one side)
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You're done with surface level advice and ready for real change
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You can handle direct feedback and aren't looking for someone to coddle you
This is not for you if:
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You want to blame your ex and have someone agree with you
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You're looking for dating tips or pickup strategies
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You're not willing to look at yourself honestly
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You want a quick fix
A warrior is someone, who is strong inside and out.
Most men are strong on the outside, while the inside lies dormant. This is a huge detriment.
Strengthen your inside, and you become a force to be reckoned with.